Hey Lan,
You know, your wife must be an amazing woman on one level, for you to have hung in so long! I reread the posts over page. I can imagine how the OM is .. nothing special. Friends (and bf) who saw pictures of my OM also thought.. WTF !!? And told me as much. The only way I would have really known .. would have been for bf to finally leave me and start dating. I would have been heartbroken and set about winning him back.

Just a thought!

Hugs to you, Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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