Hey Lan, You know, your wife must be an amazing woman on one level, for you to have hung in so long! I reread the posts over page. I can imagine how the OM is .. nothing special. Friends (and bf) who saw pictures of my OM also thought.. WTF !!? And told me as much. The only way I would have really known .. would have been for bf to finally leave me and start dating. I would have been heartbroken and set about winning him back.
Just a thought!
Hugs to you, Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread