Originally Posted By: blownaway65
Mind, sorry for the HiJack but I gotta just say congrats to Sandy.

Way to go, it seriously does feel great to find a genuine person and to be able to trust someone again doesn't it !!!




BA ~ I won't lie, it's scary but I need to be able to believe there are people out there that think like I do about relationships. I guess this time around if he "were" to turn out to be a loser I would know just what to do.... but sooner and with way less angst than with my EXH.... but we've know each other and I've been around him here and there over the past 4-5 months... more so since the start of the new year and he is consistant. When I watch him work on things it's so nice to watch someone that doesn't have to throw a fit of anger and curse everytime. EXh got to the point where he was so angry that he can't do anything without pitching a fit. I hear him laughing when things go wrong, I use to do that too but I lost it along the way and I let my EXH "teach" me a new way. The lessons I learned DB'ing really helped me get back to my former self.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too