Allen - Yes, he has always been a little selfish, but never this bad. In fact even his family used to joke with him about his selfishness. However, he was also very loving and giving to me so I put up with some of his selfish behavior.
He stopped by the house this evening without calling first. Luckly my sister and her husband were here, so mostly just small talk. However, he did ask me how I was doing. I said "ok, not to bad". He then asked if I was happy. I said, "no, not really, are you?". He replied with, "No, I'm not happy either". And that was that, my sister walked by us, and that ended the relationship talk. One other thing he keeps saying lately is "If we get back together". He say's that when we are talking about something he has bought or rented. For example: he told me about the washer and dryer he was renting for his apt and how it was better to rent than to buy, just in case we get back together.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
