I understand. He tells me earlier today that he is a very needy person when it comes to being given affection from me and that is where he says hurts because I don't do that and haven't for a very long time. But if I try he pushes me away and if I don't he gets mad because I am so happy even though we are going through this hard period of time. So you think I shouldn't answer any calls or texts? What do I say when he asks why?