I was a wayward in a previous situation approximately 10 years ago. Waywards really need to be stung, because part of their reality is you aren't going to go anywhere. The other part is you can't really boundary enforce because as a virtue of the action of cheating, if you try to shut down something they can just do it outside.
Female waywards are a bit different, but if you read my contribution - it may help you.
I think the affairs need to be bursted and anywhere where the WAW is on the edge in life needs to be bursted too.
