Ok, Lady, back away from the ledge. heya, Pass. I'm glad your in a better place in general. Each of us has to assess our own sitch from time to time and decide if it's worth it. Couples do make it back from very dark places but it's ok if you decide you've had enough. It takes time either way. Busting a D is a very long process. Don't give up hope if you're not really sure.