What does this mean?- the WH's regrets?

[newmama]

Let me clarify something- the parts of DBing that include making changes for yourself, improving areas that needed it, GALing, and avoiding talking about the R or pursuing, etc. still apply if there is an OW or not!

I am worried I was implying that any DBing is useless with an OW. I just mean don't expect it to be enough to make him end the A- I think they end it when they end it!