Thanks for the replies, Daughter is with a foster family now because they didnt send a summons and called emergency hearing due to my W's assault case.
They left msg at home and didnt call me at work. Yes my sister or W's mom is an option for alternate guardian.
Tomorrow I meet with CPS and try and see if i can gain custody and explain how I wasnt contacted via summons etc... I will see if i can get D to a better place then foster care.
I know i have to focus on this 1st, but i worry about the longterm and fixing all issues with my wife. I love her and my daughter and when things were good Life was good.
Its hard to apply DB in this situation, but i think my wife is leaning toward divorce. I know now I need to DB hard for any type of relationship going forward.
The CPS lady said we needed a divorce and likely is telling this to my wife. Said we were oil and water.
I am so sad and depressed now I feel bad, even with the anti-depressant celexa. I just want things to be back to the way they were as Our Relationship was doing good before the conference with CPS as it freaked my wife out and made her react in very hysterical ways.
We were seeing a counselor and working on things, now i fear it could be over. What other things can I do to help myself.
let me go smoke a cigarette and I will reply. what state are you in? I'm going through this right now with all 3 kiddies so give me a second
waw 36 (spiritual covenant and common law marriage)me 32 together 13 mos. Bomb dropped march 2nd 2010
children SD (8) S (10) S (3) need help from anyone with my sitch
