Ok, I'm getting a lot of appreciated opinions on her including being called a "wimp" haha. I used to stand up to her more but it led to rediculous arguments a lot of times and recently I've become much more relaxed in my nature to try and ease the tension with my wife. I've tried to demonstrate to her that I am a pleasant person to be around and not everything needs to be a showdown. Maybe I am being a wimp and I should just block the number and listen to her call me controlling and everything else in the book. I can handle all that, but here's my weak spot, she will threaten me with the kids and I back down right away. I can't help it and she uses that tactic and I hate it. It's not a fair thing to do, I would never use that one against her, mainly because I can for being a male who always get the short end of the stick in a custody battle. =( I love my kids with a passion, so I try not to argue in front of them, and I don't know if that is classified as me losing the argument, but even if I kept pursuing my point, even if I "won", there isn't a winner. I will think about blocking the number again, I'd like to see if the texting slows down any and maybe she will come to her senses and realize the greener pastures are right here in her home. I don't want to give everyone the impression my wife is a horrible person, we're are going through very rough period right now, but we have many many happy memories and that is the fuel to my fire to keep my family together.
M 34 W 31 S 8 D 3 W affair 3 seperate times with same ex since Feb 2010 I said I wanted divorced April 2012