Possible EA - sitting on the edge

[BWP]

We've covered everything, no late payments etc. Except every two weeks she's sending money to pay down the one debt we have - it obviously could me more so she's keeping some back.

I hate to admit but I was lax up until now. Money has never been an issue for us. I know now it's probably been going on for a while.

I feel completely beaten up right now. I've prided myself for years on being a good guy. Work hard, make good money, pitch in at least 50% around the house (probably more with D), remember birthdays, anniversary and celebrate them well. I've listened to countless discussions about how hard work was, how her friends don't treat her well, how her mother is nasty. Supported her through post partem - got up every night with my D, I supported her through anxiety disorder.

I look at that list and I think...what a mug! I've been taken and now to top it all off I'm going to lose my house (well at least half), lose my D and a family of ILs that I got along with very well.

Well that's it for the rant. I had to blow that off.