OK I admit I have confronted, pursued, and thrown hissy fits when I try to set a boundary. But I'm doing better. When she got home today, I said nothing. I didn't even ask her where she went (although it's quite obvious).

I guess I'm not very good at setting boundaries. That's why I love it when you guys tell me exactly what I can say or do. I'm having a bit of trouble enforcing the boundary. Not exactly sure how to do that without her being able to say I THREW her out.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.