We cuddle, talk and make love regularly when alone, but then when the kids are around it is business as usual. I want to reach over and touch him or kiss him and am afraid of how he would take it or react.
So, reach passed your fear! Try a little affectionate pat on the arm. Brush up against him when the kids are present. Maybe he is just as fearful as you are...and you can alleviate his fears by conquering yours. If he reacts badly...then back off..just don't take it personally. It's his issues, not yours making him react badly. If he reacts well...wooohooo....another baby step forward has been taken.
