Lots in your story that I've seen in others. One thing similar to mine is that after the bomb and I moved out I noticed my STBXW had been searching through Google and FB for the one serious boyfriend she had before me.
He's a doctor in the suburbs. That's all I know. I don't think anything came from it. Instead, she's taken to hanging out in biker bars 45 minutes from here -- an opposite direction from the old boyfriend -- because her best friend lives there and absolutely no one knows me, so she can do whatever without it getting back to me.
It's almost harder when they fantasize about an old flame rather than having an actual OM because the old flame will always be perfect. An OM will have actual faults and they may rethink things.
I guess the one consolation is that your kids are grown and there won't be separation issues. And no child support issues.
That's a small consolation though. It still sucks.
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