Ok. She is not there right now. I know others might advise against it but I would be tearing the house apart after getting that letter and find the deposit slip. Most likely, there are some kind of records that will let you know what she's up to. I would find her computer asap. Of course, you'll want to be careful about D seeing what you're up to, but you can call it spring cleaning.
I would too. Any family court judge worth his or her salt isn't going to look too kindly on squandering of marital assets.
