It's just as likely that she's having trouble making up her mind simply because she doesn't HAVE to, and that she perceives herself to have the best of both worlds.
Puppy
That about sums up my sitch pretty well. This last few days has been an abbreviated version or repetition of my whole dilemma since last July.
1) I confront her with a boundary. 2) She responds by running to the OM. 3) She comes back and acts like nothing happened and yet refuses to end her contact with the OM.
