Saving a relationship that maybe cannot be saved

[james217]

I can help with some of this.

First of all the fighting must stop. Anger management and IC for the both of you.

If you want to get your child from cps? here is what is going to happen.

You will more than likely have a hearing stating whether or not they will have temporary custody of your D and then you will have recommended services such as parenting classes, anger management, IC, MC, and a psyc and neurological evaluation.

Here's where it's going to get tricky. CPS most definitely will not return the child to an environment with violent behavior.

They may decide one or the other must go. The R.O. looks very very bad for you man. I hate to say it but it's true.

CPS may say W may get the child because of that. Or you might get her. Or neither one. They may/may not say it's best to split up.

All I can say is NO MORE VIOLENT BEHAVIOR. If you feel it escalating? Just leave. Do not violate the R.O. dude.

This is really really bad. and due to wife violating the N.C. order it's going to make it worse

CPS is going to pick your case apart at the hearing. You and W are going to have to do whatever services they recommend and show you guys can get along.

Everything else needs to STOP STOP STOP.