Well went to barbershop (singing) convention yesterday. FIL,BIL, and S12 were performing in a chorus, which their chorus won. YAY!
The day went well for the most part until the very end of the night. Her mask dropped and the crabby monster came out. She was ripping into S12 for a number of things. When I tried to diffuse the situation, she ripped into me saying the issue was a carryover from the night before. When I apologized because I didn't know that it was an ongoing issue, she said I should have asked her. There was no reason for me to ask.
I asked S12 about it on the way home and he said there was no issue from the night before, that she was in a good mood. He also told me that he saw her on another dating site. THis is the 3rd one in a month. Apparently not getting the results she wants. I checked out the profile and the description of the person she's looking for is me. I did let my emotion get to me and I told her that I was sick of her BS. That whatever I do is wrong in her eyes. She didn't respond.
I've noticed her faulty memory twice in the past week. When we took D9 to the doctor for her collarbone, she told D9 that she was the first in the family to break a bone. I've broken 3, which she said well I guess you're not the first then. She had known about all 3, one of which she was present when it happened.
The other had to do with one of the issues she was ripping into S12 for last night. It was something that had occurred 2 months ago. I had told her all about it then. She brought it up yesterday out of the blue and when I explained it to her again it was as if I had never told her before.