Well. I made an executive decision. I decided that unlike my birthday, I would extend the offer to take her out for hers. I texted her yesterday wishing her a Happy Birthday eve (which is a tradition in her family) and offer to take her out on her birthday.
I didn't really expect a response and I definitely didn't think she would take me up on it. She accepted. So we got together. And...
..there was zero chemistry for me. None. Other than this was someone who I share a history with, I had no intimate thoughts whatsoever. No attraction. So this is being detached?
She has made zero improvements, in the time we have been apart. She was pleasant, in a friend sort of way, but I didn't feel any desire to pursue her romantically. She was curious about some of my changes, but mainly my taking up golf. She offered to get together at the driving range sometime. I'm fairly "meh" about that.
If I didn't know her and this was a first date, there wouldn't be a second. So I am believing that there will be no "remedy" here.
