Well, I think your H needs to know how things are going with you, emotionally, as long as you do it in a non accusatory way and do not confuse feelings with actual thought. So tonight, if he mentions the issue be open with him, but do not make him feel guilty about it. They are your emotions...
I am not sure that I am making myself clear.
"You don't throw a whole life away just 'cause it's banged up a little"
Tom Smith in "Seabiscuit"
