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I still wish I knew what I did to make him dislike me so?


Repetitive but still too much self-blame and self-victimization. You'll know your clearing the tree tops when you laugh at his put downs of you and simply ignore them or continue to talk or email right over them.

It will never be easy because we are ball and chained to them thru our children. Best thing is to cut off all the fat and keep it as lean as possible.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;