She came back, ignored the luggage, fixed lunch, and acted like nothing happened.

Thanks for giving me ideas for something to say. I may need them later today.

I believe you are correct about her having transition issues. I believe she is also having trouble making up her mind because she is somewhat convicted that what wants to do is wrong.

Yes, I did read your excerpt on pursual (thanks for that) - and I definitely can relate to that and say that I have been the pursuer, (trying to persuade her, hold her hand and everything) and she has been the distancer. Now that I understand my problem better, maybe I can deal with the situation better.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.