Lanzo, Sleeping elsewhere is easier to deal with due to the mystery of what's going on. This event is affecting me differently, and hopefully will be a catalyst to different action.
I did confront it last night, as I recall. I threw the guy out of the house, and told my W that I as much as I enjoy the positives together, I can't continue to live like this, and that we need to find a way to move forward.
These are powerful words coming from me. It's a warning to her. I wouldn't have said it any differently.
What I need to make sure doesn't happen, is that she fails to respond to my email, and the event simply fades away.
Thanks for posting. Your reaction is a reality check for me.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
