Thanks! Although I don't think wise really comes into play!!! I'm just terrified of hurting. He not only keeps up that pace, but keeps the MLC lifestyle going at that pace, his decorating, his work on my house (just the tiny bit I let him do is 1000x more than you can imagine), and his work and travel too. I'm exhausted just watching!! But it doesn't seem to end. Though he complains that he "does" and "does" and then no one appreciates it!!
Hey, I read your first post way back when I was first looking at the board, but I never posted back then. It really struck me because we were sort of going for the lifestyle you have/had when everything blew up in our relationship. It was a strange irony to read it. How are you doing?
