Think I should switch to your moniker, lol? I am truley a confused wife at the moment!
Maybe you are right. - He doesn't want to be the "bad guy" and decide to leave. - But I won't tell him to go. - Also he would like to try some more to "prove?" that it doesn't work, but I won't let him do that either!
And so I currently "stand", though maybe just on one foot! I wish he'd just "wake up" so we could get on with our lives. Or "man up" and take hold of his responsiblities. Or just leave!!!!