Hey CW,

Think I should switch to your moniker, lol? I am truley a confused wife at the moment!

Maybe you are right.
- He doesn't want to be the "bad guy" and decide to leave.
- But I won't tell him to go.
- Also he would like to try some more to "prove?" that it doesn't work, but I won't let him do that either!

And so I currently "stand", though maybe just on one foot! I wish he'd just "wake up" so we could get on with our lives. Or "man up" and take hold of his responsiblities. Or just leave!!!!

Thanks so much for your comments, it really helps smile

- SCh