I still follow your thread daily but I don't post, but the latest turn of events have prompted my to write somthing. I’m stunned by the latest goings on and even more stunned by your reactions (or lack of).
Originally Posted By: CL
I noticed under the closed door, a candle flickering, and heard what I thought were moans. I went over to investigate, and knocked on the door. I asked what was going on. The lights came on, the door opened, and I noticed my W in a robe and her pants on the floor. She pretended like nothing happened. I thought about it for a minute, and said that I thought her friend should leave. He did as we was told.
I’ve read this paragraph over and over and over, and I can’t work out the positives in your R that out weight these goings on. Sleeping elsewhere, or playing away can be partially ignored, but when sexual activity (correct me if I’m wrong) with W and another man occurs in your house, right under your nose, then I think a major boundary has been crossed and it should be confronted head on. You shouldn't ignore what faces you.
Just my opinion but I think you need to take a differet approach.
