My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[WhatNow]

Well, if she asks why it is out, you'll have to say something.

Say something about her choice. "You know I can't be married to you when you are having an A with another man. Since you are still in contact with him, It seems you have made a choice, and would need luggage to begin living with that choice."

I wouldn't discuss it with her unless she tells you she said good-bye to him today. If that is the case, say "Let's send him a confirmation letter of NC! and then I'll put the luggage away!"

Allen actually did this and it worked so he will have better input. I did what you are doing now and chased WH away. Say it once and let the silence speak for itself, otherwise you are giving her ammo to justify her leaving. Did ya read the thing on pursual? Replace MLCer with WS. (Although I suspect your W has some transition issues or she would have been gone awhile ago)