MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

Hi CX...yes, "this time" it went ok..

I ended up telling the kids. H got off scott free but...they have all week to come up with questions for H. I told them because they were asking about where they were going to be staying since Dad doesn't have his own place yet etc...he won't be around this week at all and I just did not want them to hear about it on the way to her house. It was very hard to say it and say it without badmouthing OW or H. With the subject of adultery being in the news almost everyday, they seemed to take it fairly well. My son said that it would have been nice to get to know her before he stayed in her house

I am really having a hard time with the kids meeting her..I want to throw up...I suppose I can say no to them going but then "I" am the bad guy...this is all just so wrong!!!!