Big surprise this weekend for me, my husband did not run away! Normally we work every other saturday (in the same office) and on our regular weekends he would pack up his car and disappear. I left for work friday morning, he didn't say anything. I saw him throughout the day, again no mention. Normally late afternoon he would just vanish, he did end up leaving the office about 4pm. I went and got groceries, spent some 'me' time shopping, figuring I'd come home and treat myself to a pizza for dinner. When I got there he was sitting on the back porch drinking beer!
Being a wise DB-er I didn't make a big deal of it, just made dinner as usual and joined him on the porch. I thought that perhaps he was spending time at home to push more for the divorce, but surprisingly he's been very pleasant! He helped me with yard chores yesterday, worked on things around the house, we grilled for dinner and enjoyed the sunshine on the porch again.(who is this strange normal acting man?) At one point he even picked up my foot, put it in his lap, and started to massage it! I was so happy for the attention but again didn't make a big deal about it.
Today has been rainy, he's been watching movies on TV and I've been busy staying away from him. I do still see him emailing on his phone, so I suppose he is still in contact with OW, but not spending time with her.
I am trying not to read into this, probably OW was busy and couldn't see him but I am certainly trying to make his weekend here pleasant. I know I shouldn't be thinking about 'them', I actually found myself slightly annoyed that I couldn't spend time on the DB boards because he was here!
Me - 38 Husband - 40 MLC! Together 12 years Married 11 years Still the love of my life Forever only lasted 10 years before his MLC and affair
