Today started out okay. W decides she wants to take the kids somewhere fun without me. Initially, I was upset, but I just let it go. The kids were upset and wated me to go, so I just said have a good time with your mom.
I just have to let go of things that I can't change. It does not mean I have to like it.
Then she called to ask which card to use for gas, and I told I was going to do that later, and I had decided yet. She said, "don't worry about it; I will take care of it." I asked here "where do you have all this money from." She said it is none of your business. I said we are still a married couple, so it is my business. She said okay bye. I just hung up. I should not have said anything. I messed up a litle.
While she's doing that, nothing will be effective except the 180. I know the attitude, and you can't be nice to it because it will take advantage of you and you see you can't argue with it, because it will shout you down. Gaining pride and ego in her adulteress ways even though you ARE RIGHT. Its frustrating.
robx discussed some techniques which aren't "nice", but pretty effective. I'm a fan of bursting that affair.
