I just got blamed in another thread "MrBond" in the OfficerInNeed thread for cheating on my wife. He was saying "aren't you the one who cheated on her, and now that the shoe is on the other foot you are P.O.d".
I explained to him that I have never cheated on my wife or been in an inappropriate situation.
My wife has also had debit cards, etc. I know I'm not putting funds on them and have had to wonder if there is some helpful "OM" doing this.
LSG, on your wife getting progressively mean and rude to you. While they are cheating you and embellishing in it, they are building up a ego that actually does not like you. It will attack you, and as you see through her treatment and communication. Its getting worse and you didn't do anything, but in this case be innocent and she knows it.
I went ahead and started doing marriage councelling. My wife unloaded a laundry list on me, I got most of the points down on paper though. I did not get to respond because the session ended. I will respond in the next session if she participates.
Remember this, no matter how bad the spouse gets. There are others out there who will be happy to be with you, and WILL NOT want to get over on you. Remember that to keep your security.
on the OM, you have to find a way to blow that open. Its good for the self esteem and will be an instantaneous reversal. Plus the longer the relationship goes on, the worse things will be for you.
