I agree FM- I think she is really needing some serious guidance. I posted once to her after you mentioned she needed input but haven't followed up.
I will look again but it definitely would help her if others could give her input.

I mean her hubby is still living with his OW till the lease ends and THEN wants to move back in with Mystik- it is not sitting well with me at all!

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)