W still wants separation, need to DB more

[MrBond]

DLS,

"I HAVE NOT CHEATED ON OR BEEN IN AN INAPPROPRIATE SITUATION AGAINST MY WIFE. "

You mean your "current" W. I was referring to the fact that you cheated on your past W with this W. Or was this not your sitch?

You talk alot about your W's selfish attitude, etc. But you said that's how you were when you cheated on your first W. You understand the WAS's thoughts very well. Maybe I'm not getting why you're so puzzled by your W's behavior. All you need to do is what you think you might have wanted your first W to do to you to save the M.