Really guy, you need to start your own thread. You're letting alot of your own frustrations show up in other people's posts. And let's face it, weren't you the one who cheated on your W? I mean you sound pretty P.O.'d now that it's happening to you.
MrBond,
I HAVE NOT CHEATED ON OR BEEN IN AN INAPPROPRIATE SITUATION AGAINST MY WIFE.
Not even once.
I have cheated in other relationships before I met her.
In this situation my current wife's friends have low ethics, and they accused me of cheating to help egg her on to cheating me.