Allen, you must have not read some of my posts that I wrote on threads you and I were both posting on then. I specifically said that when my H told me about his A he initially said that he wanted to carry on with both OW and me,( for what was to be about three months), whilst he decided who he wanted to be with. That would be a direct competition, no?
I refused - the only person who wins in that sitch is the cheating S - even the OW is having to jump through hoops; meanwhile the cheating b*st*rd gets to lap up all that lurrrrvin'
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
