H feels that everything that's happening to him is because of the affair and not that the affair happened because of his emotional state.
HB - could he be in depression and withdrawal at the same time?
Hopefully, he'll be so miserable that he won't EVER do this again, even after he comes through everything. The Bible says you will reap what you sow for a season, and God doesn't specify how long that season will be.
Yes, it is possible to go through multiple stages at one time while in MLC.
OW Withdrawal is a mini stage when an affair has happened, yet it is possible to suffer other stages while going through this, too.
Have a good one.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.