Thought stopping? I suck at it. And guess what? I am suffering by it. Not H (ok, maybe I make him suffer a bit too when I spin downwards).

Please sit down and identify all the reasons you are hurting. Write them down. Then post them and lets look at them together.
K

Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009