have to say T.. one of the best thing I was able to here in my state was have the state take over. since the court had already established it all I had to do was go to the child support enforcement people -- and they took it over. It was humbling... but they are in control now.. not x and nothing up to me.

do you have something like that where you are?

it has taken pressure off of me. the only way I won't see money is if x doesn't have a job. Right now he is 1 year, 4 months into his job.... based on his past history i have about another year... then there will be another change. Serious... he either quit or got fired every 2 1/2 years for a very very long time...

sorry he is such a puke!!


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again