If you are able to talk to son about MLC, that seems like a good idea.

However, I would be careful not to interfere--tough line between being available and giving advice--you will just be blamed if son tries to ditch wifey, don't you think?

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D