Libby - I never contact mine accept about Business, money or D. Even now that he "wants to R". They have to come to you and that's how I'm playing it.

"Leave him with some peace" - if he is anything like my H, he is not much at peace even when he is with OW.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO