Oh Lea, I don't know how I missed your update. I am appalled your H treated you the way he did. I am so glad you have gone dark. NEVER accept being slapped or spit on. I am so sorry you had to endure such a horrid act.
Today is not a good day. Just found out that my in-laws are visiting (they live in our home country) and are staying that the OW's house. I am so shocked and stunned.
I have known my MIL for 21 years and we have always been really close. I could confide in her and she was my biggest supporter in making my marriage work. She has always betrated people who have A's and now it seems she is condoning her son's behaviour.
I am so hurt, I really dont understand how people can be so mean and hurtful. I have never experienced anything like this before, maybe I am just naive believing everyone has kindess in them.
I cant express how sad I am by all this. I get that my H doesnt want to be with me and wants someone else, but does he have to be so mean about it. This OW has really played this game so well. She now has my H, sometimes my kids and now my In-laws as well.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
Thanks Luvless. I find this stitch so hard to understand. My MIL always joked that I was her favorite daughter-in-law and that she will always take my side. We have always been so close. I have always considered my FIL like a dad - I have known him longer than I knew my own dad.
Their behaviour shows that they are condoning my H's behaviour. On top of that my sons are there. This must be so confusing for them. My in-laws normally stay with us and now they are staying at the OW's house. I just want my sons home with me and not aroudn people with clearly no conscience or morals.
I will contatcting my L on monday and stopping overnight stays. I can not let my sons stay with deceitful people and people who continue to lie. Anyway my H still does have a suitable apartment for them to sayd in - only a one bedroom. He said he would start to look for something bigger but hasnt and secondly my sons never know where they are going to stay - each time is different. One of sons shares a bed with my son and the other is in a camp bed.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
My MIL turned on me the same way. I am sorry you are having one heartbreak after the other. The only thing you can do is endure the pain. If you D him Monday, there will be pain because that's not what you want. Keep you distance and dint let him know that these situations hurt you.
