ok. The long, slow approach. But now that I screwed up, I have to win back some minor trust. Which will be hard seeing that she's shutting me out.

"To keep it simple, I told you 0 contact and I meant it. "

How to recover from that?

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)