Sorry your H is acting so childish. frown It's more or less what I expected.. he really is selfish I know...

The qustion for you is when did the selfishness start?

Is the affair causing this or has he always been like this?

I really don't reccomend you expose yourself to him in private... always try to ahve a friend with you until he starts showing some consideration... right now he's completely self-involved.

4luv's husband did the same thing...calling his new apt his "bachelor pad".. its passive abuse in my opinion.


Last edited by Allen A; 04/25/10 04:39 PM.