Oh what to do about taking her to court?!? Does anyone have any advice? Beginning to think that being in the UK means I'm exempt.

Don't know why I'm feeling so rubbishly needy today. Or why the feelings of wanting her back that I'd managed to recently control somewhat better have welled up so strongly.

I'm stuck in limbo again. On the one hand want to do the online civil court application to get my money, to maybe wake her up to some consequence, to hit her where it hurts. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt her, it will be easy for her to turn around and label me as impatient and nasty. But it will also be a 180 that I'm not putting it off and just letting things happen because I can't be bothered - she always dug at my laid back nature when it comes to getting things done.


Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.