hello Pandora,
I have caught up a little on your situation and i think you are handling yourself brilliantly - a real credit to yourself.

You seem to be a lovely, strong, fairminded lady who has a good grasp of reality.

It is hard and I feel your pain - validating your husband's feelings when he opened his heart to you took real courage - well done.

((hugs)) to you


lalxx

PS rememeber MLCers often change their mind like the wind so tomorrow the outlook may not be so bleak for your marriage
x

Choose Life
Me: 45
Him: 44
S:11
D:8
Met in 1992
Married in 1995
Bomb drop September 30th 2009
Divorce final April 16th 2011
exH Marries OW June 17th 2011