HB - thank you so much...your posts are very enlightening....I really appreciate you taking the time to write (((HUG)))
About suicide....yes it worries me especially when he was talking that way last few times that OW broke up with him. Both times he told me that if it wasn't for D & I he would just want to go to sleep and never wake-up or wishing that his plane would crash (told me after a trip) or that he doesn't care what happens to him but will not do anything about it because he couldn't do that to D.
After this last, final break-up although he is depressed, miserable and is obviously struggling with it all...so far he didn't bring up suicide. One recent statement about "wanting to get over it and get on with his life" makes me hope that he wouldn't do anything stupid.
I wish that H believed that he is in MLC and was interested in reading some material that could help him. In the past I did talk to him about MLC but he just dismissed it.
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Where the MLC'er will make a mess is by looking at OUTSIDE influences to blame for his/her discomfort within the emotional pain that is being experienced
H feels that everything that's happening to him is because of the affair and not that the affair happened because of his emotional state.
HB - could he be in depression and withdrawal at the same time?
HB - thank you for caring, my best wishes to you and your family
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
