Hi snodderly Don't appologise for the hijack. It is no problem at all. Any points raised on the subject of reconnection are helpful whatever the situation.
I think the LBS gets to a point when they see reconnection taking place and becomes scared to actually believe this is what is taking place as they have been 'slam dunked' so many times before. I know this is how I am feeling. I am glad you replied to me today and shared what you see in my sitch at the moment. I believe I am seeing a big step forward, but I know until OW is out of the picture I just have to sit back and wait this one out, however frustrating this is. We see movement forward but can't offer that hand to help them along. They have to do it themselves. I feel like my life has become a soap opera. We have filmed many endings, its just up to him which ending we actually get to show.