shot myself in the foot again. I'm kind of back in my normal state of mind and felt a bit cocky, so I gave away plans to go to court and make it long and difficult unless she gave in to my request for adoption. I kept it all on email except the last bit (where I f***ed up).

I called her on not believing the rape story and she went ballistic and said no contact until a judge says I get custody.

I had started the convo out in an aggressive stance but began to realize that diplomacy was the best way to go. Then I let her bait me into getting mad when she went off on the various flaws I've displayed over the years and these last few mos in particular.

Can I repair this w/out doing the court thing (war)? What can I say?

Last edited by TooLateForMe; 04/25/10 02:41 PM.
~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)