Has your H tried to contact you recently? Is NC bringing you peace?

About the EA/PA possibility. If there is infidelity, then that changes things. It makes it even harder to DB. So I do think it is worth knowing because if you are fighting for your M and he is not responding due to an OW, you will be wasting your energy until OW is out of the pic.

I hope there isn't!!! Do you want to know? If you suspect, then try to find out when you are ready to handle the truth in case there is an A.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004