Oh you're not raining on my parade. It can be so darn confusing and you gave me clarity. I appreciate that very much.

I do have another question though that maybe you can shed some light on so I know what I'm seeing. I know the mask the MLCer wears takes a lot of energy for them to wear. If they get excessively tired, do they lose the ability to wear their mask. For instance, yesterday we were at a convention to watch her dad, her brother, and our son sing in a chorus. It was an all day event. We were on the go from 9 in the morning until 10 last night. She was like Jekyll and Hyde. At the endo f the night she was fine and then almost instantly she became almost unbearable to deal with. She was finding fault with everything both me and S12 were doing or saying.