Popped into the in laws again today as was passing with a friend after a walk in the woods. She has the letter, confirmed by FIL. He was again extremely vocal about his disgust for her. Apparently she said that the OM would 'pop in and check on him' at his hospital appt in a few weeks, which he is also disgusted by. And for the first time the BIL voiced his opinions. He is seriously on the warpath apparently.

I asked him about whether she had said anything about my intention to take her to small claims court. He just said "what goes around comes around." He has no intention of bailing her out apparently, and again reiterated that the OM would never be welcome at the farm, or the BIL farm. Not that the OM's Gucci shoes would ever stand the farm muck there anyway......


Reality is that which, if you don't believe in it, doesn't go away.